boundaries Archives | Kelle Sparta

I Wished To Be On My Spiritual Path And Then…

by Kelle Sparta | Jan 13, 2015 | Magick and Magickal Perspective

I drank from the grail. It was 3AM and I was in a circle of 30 people all adding their energy to the grail ceremony; each making their wish and drinking. My friend Ken had gone first and then passed the grail to me. Without telling each other in advance, we had each...

Walkabout 2002 – Hard But Healing Weekend

by Kelle Sparta | Mar 17, 2014 | Shamanic Initiation

This weekend was really exhausting for me. I spent Saturday evening with Sam doing a grief healing for her as part of the finalizing of her divorce. Ken and Tra were there and I felt the growing rift between us. It is sad to see one’s friends drift away. I had...

Walkabout 2002 Finding My Edges, Establishing My Boundaries

by Kelle Sparta | Nov 5, 2013 | Shamanic Initiation

The more I think about the things I have been told recently and the reactions I’ve been having, the more I realize that I really am swayed significantly by other people’s feelings and opinions of me. Part of this spiritual journey was for me to set some...

Developing Personal Power – Setting Great Boundaries – Saying No

by Kelle Sparta | Apr 2, 2013 | Developing Personal Power

Boundaries Are… Well… Tricky One of the issues that I address with my clients both privately and in my group coaching program is the issue of boundaries. How to set them, how to enforce them, and how to not be a bitch while doing it. Many of my clients...

Setting Good Boundaries – Making a Scene

by Kelle Sparta | Apr 1, 2013 | Developing Personal Power, Sexual Empowerment

This One Time, At a Swingers Club…. Many years ago, I worked at a swinger’s club. I had become friends with the club’s owners and I would tend bar and keep an eye on things over the course of the evening. So when those owners were selling the club...