Being real is always the best choice!
It could be rather funny, in a way, to put your best friend of several years and your new boyfriend in a room together for a long time. Very funny. Especially when it’s Ken and Daniel – two of the least posturing, least testosterone-driven men I’ve ever known. But, evidently, when they are both checking out the other to make sure that they are OK for me, the posturing and the sparring kicks in. Who knew? I was so shocked, I just sat there and watched and said “you guys let me know when you’re done and for the record, I have no idea who either of you are right now.” Thankfully, after the testosterone stopped whirling around, they got down to the real people underneath. And I think they even liked each other. Oh, yes, Daniel asked Ken to ping him psychically (he’s learning and he wanted to see what someone else doing it was like) and Ken obliged (I’m not sure he was done with the posturing thing after all). Still waiting for Daniel’s head to stop reeling. Hee hee.
Never play with a coyote shaman unless you like Acme products. Thankfully, I have stock in the company. 😉
* This is part of an ongoing series of posts detailing what happened on a spiritual pilgrimage that I took in 2002. To start from the beginning, go to July 2, 2013. To see the entire spiritual journey as it gets published, click on the category “You Want Me To Do WHAT?!!?” to see all of the posts.